When Life Doesn’t Go As Planned

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When Life Doesn’t Go As Planned, what’s the next step?   In this week’s Walk of Shame Radio Podcast Lexi and Tony tackle the very common problem in a relationship where the couple finds themselves with two different visions of what their life will look like in the future.   Lexi starts things off with a share of one of her favorite quotes:   “We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us” -Joseph Campbell   It’s a tough gig when you really connect with someone …

Attraction Scale Nonsense Part 2

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In the Attraction Scale Part 2 episode of the Walk of Shame Radio Podcast, we share with you how to quickly and easily MAXIMIZE YOUR ATTRACTION! It’s All About Social Value Tony brings up a study about the “matching hypothesis” that predicts that people will pair up with someone with a similar “social mate value”…which basically has to do with the number someone thinks they are, plus their personality and how they present themselves. Then Tony and Mariah focus on a specific study about how personality impacts someone’s level of attractiveness. The study had guys look at pictures of girls …

The Truth Behind the 1 to 10 Attraction Scale

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The Truth Behind the 1 to 10 Attraction Scale is that it’s not set in stone. This week’s episode of the Walk of Shame Radio Podcast explores what the scale really is…why we continue to do this to ourselves and each other…and, how you can either jump a couple points or sink down to a meager 3, depending on a number of factors that have NOTHING to do with physical attraction. Tony begins by explaining the origins of how we, as humans, determine beauty and how our instincts have guided us through the natural selection process to the point where …

The Right Way to Use Humor in Relationships or on a Date

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The right way to use humor in a relationship has more to do with knowing what tickles the funny bone of your significant other more than you showing off your brilliant De Niro impression. As you should know by now…humor is loaded word… …what is funny to one person may not be funny to another… And, in relationships, or in dating-to-potentially-be-a-relationship, it is always like playing with house money when your two senses of humor match up…because, let’s face it… …If you like the dry, smart-assy, witty, intelligent stuff and your SO is belly laughing while watching America’s Funniest Home …

Flirt Without Saying A Word

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We have gone DEEP into research and are more than happy to share our findings on the best way to Flirt Without Saying  A Word. Now, the rub here, is that there are different “best” approaches for guys versus girls…so we went to a number of different sources that hit us with a little science about the differences and about the most effective ways to get your “Hey Baby” message across without saying a word. This week, Tony and Mariah talk about three different lists from three different sources on how to do this… Tony starts off with the “guys” …

When the Feelings Aren’t Mutual

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Because it’s bound to happen sometime during the dating and/or relationship…how do you handle things when the feelings aren’t mutual ? For better or for worse, two people in a relationship don’t go at the same speed… …sure, at the beginning everyone starts the race from the same starting line, and for a while you guys may be pretty in sync…but, as the journey continues, more than likely, someone is bound to pull ahead, or fall behind, depending on your perspective. In a dating or relationship scenario, this looks like either you’re starting to sense that it really isn’t working …

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Time to Get Out of That Rut

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You know those times when it seems life has grinded to a halt and you find yourself stuck in an unfulfilling relationship or in a “I’ll never find someone” mentality or in a job that just doesn’t do it for you…well, it’s time to get out of that rut. This week’s show, Lexi joins Tony and they talk about what it’s like being stuck in a rut…sharing their own personal experiences…as well as the pretty easy way to get yourself moving again. The frustration of being stuck at a place that you know you shouldn’t be at is sometimes so …

Tales From A Professional Matchmaker

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This week, Tony is joined by Mariah once again, along with a very special guest that was kind enough to share her Tales From a Professional Matchmaker. Jody was previously a dating coach who worked for a large dating company.  Her job was to basically help those clients that either… …were frustrated that they haven’t found the “one” , or … …needed help with drafting their profile and shooting their video, or… …needed a quick tutorial on how NOT to be so socially awkward that it would send their date running for the door. Jody shares a number of stories, …

The Shocking Truth of Online Dating (Episode 5)

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The Shocking Truth of Online Dating is…well, it doesn’t have the best success rate…in fact, it’s Terrible! But…Why?? Well, in this episode, Lex and Tony bring up some very interesting statistics when it comes to online dating. They also share their own personal experience with online dating and dig into the reason it is so popular, the problem with the online format and the main reasons why online dating isn’t more successful. For a number of years, so many people have jumped on the online dating bandwagon (either willingly or by being shoved by a group of well-meaning friends/family members), …