The Idea of Genuine Love Versus Attachment

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Genuine Love-Good…Attachment -Bad The Buddhist Monk Tenzin Palmo Jetsunma says it best… “Attachment says…I love you therefore, I want you to make me happy.” “Genuine love says…I love you therefore I want you to be happy.” Knowing the difference between Genuine Love and Attachment will guarantee you fulfilling relationships for the rest of your life. The problem is…most of us think attachment is actually love…you know, those feelings of not knowing what you would do if your SO left. Sadly, the strong emotions that come from attachment get in the way of being able to express or even feel genuine …

The Reality of Fantasy Relationships

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The reality is, fantasy relationships rarely work out as planned…but why? This week, Lexi and I form the show around a very interesting email from a listener that poses many questions, such as: – Can a man that is suspected of cheating actually have a monogamous relationship? – Can a polyamorous relationship work? – What type of relationship fantasy can actually become a reality? – Is there such a thing as “the one”? – Is there a way to have an “open” relationship without blowing it up? – When is the right time, if any, to start talking about an …