Rejection Doesn’t Exist

Anthony Dufresne Millennial Issues

In the realm of YOU and your TRUE SELF and the interaction of YOU with the outside world…

Being rejected doesn’t actually exist.

Rejection is “an act of” or “a state of” or “something that is” rejected…

…all of which are just ways of describing something or a situation within a particular context and based upon a unique point of view.

What I mean is…

…It’s only “rejection” if you label it that way, or if someone else does and you decide to accept their interpretation of the situation.

In actuality, rejection is merely a disagreement between two entities as to the manner of their relationship…with this important point.

…it does not define the worth of individual entities, but the relationship between the two.

Which means…

…being “rejected” by someone, let’s say in a relationship context, is simply just one person not agreeing to share a relationship with you the way you would like to share it with them.

Being rejected in this context has absolutely nothing to do with your worth as YOU…as a unique and amazing human being on the planet at this point in time for a particular reason…

…it just has to do with…

…the other person not jiving with your style or not at the same point in life or not on the same page in the same book or maybe because they hit their own “ego wall” because of something that has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.

I say all this because, inevitably, the first thing that happens in this situation is…

…you feel like YOU has been rejected…the entire YOU has been told by someone else that you’re…

…not good enough for them in some form or fashion.

…And, I need you to understand, without a shred of doubt…THIS IS CRAP!

When this happens (yep, it happens to everybody in every type of relationship)…

…”Realize” as fast as you can the feeling of “rejection” that is washing over you…

…and immediately start chanting…

“It’s not me, it’s the relationship that they choose out of”

The sooner you train yourself to not only “say”…not only “know”… but to actually “own” that fact…

…the faster you’ll be able to snap out of situations that changed because they were supposed to anyway.

Remember…

…rejection doesn’t exist and you weren’t supposed to continue on with it in the first place…