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You Are Definitely A 10 on the Attraction Scale … Here’s How I Know

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I can say, without any doubt…You’re Definitely a 10 on the Attraction Scale It all comes down to having a little perspective and seeing the big picture. I have to ask… What was your gut reaction to the title of this podcast? Everyone has an attraction scale number or range…what is yours and why is it where it is? People’s tendency to rate themselves is usually based on a general scale…mostly focusing on the people more attractive than themselves. That’s not good because it automatically makes you feel “less than”. and it varies based on how you feel about yourself …

The Big Difference Between Dating In Your 20’s and Dating In Your 30’s

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There are some big differences between dating in your 20’s and dating in your 30’s. This week, we say goodbye to Lexi by talking about one of her favorite subjects … dating. And, wherever you happen to be on that scale, this show has a little something for you. Stuff we talk about include: – What we expect when we date in our 20’s and how that changes when we get into our 30’s – The signs to look for that tell you your now looking for more in your dating – How dating in your 30’s can be way …

3 Traits Found in Every Successful Relationship

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My own experience with relationship and couples therapy, combined with years of study indicates there are 3 traits found in every successful relationship. This week, Lexi and I talk about the must have traits in order to have a successful relationship. And we’re not just talking about significant other relationships…these traits need to be a part of every type of relationship…friend, co-worker, family, etc. Tune in to discover: – the 3 traits (obviously) – How to know when you have them or when you lose them or even, if you can ever keep them with a particular person – How …

What to do About Valentines Day

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It’s that time of year again…Happy Valentines Day, Everyone! … or … …Happy Hallmark Holiday, Everyone! This week’s show is one Lexi and I did back a couple of years ago specifically about Valentines Day and all the fun and controversy that go along with it … since the content of the show matters just as much now as then, I have decided to re-introduce you to it. Valentines Day … Good or Bad? Lexi and I REALLY looking forward to talking about this particular day…why?… …because it brings about so much needless nonsense or creates so many expectations that …

Let’s Talk About Sex…Baby!

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Sex Stuff Everyone Should Know This week’s show was going to be just about orgasms (Lexi’s idea), but it ended up being a much broader conversation about sex and all of the mind games that come along with it. This show touches on … – Why some women don’t have orgasms – Is faking an orgasm better than being honest? – How the biggest sexual organ in the body is typically overlooked – Can a woman be satisfied from a sexual experience if she doesn’t reach climax? – Tips on how to set up the perfect sexual experience – Who …

Worst Dating Advice Ever

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This week Lexi and I share the worst dating advice we have ever received or heard some “expert” say. Dating is hard enough without having a bunch of people in your ear about how to act, what to do, what not to do and when is the best time to bring up your obsession with all things “owl”. So, Lexi and I figured we’d throw out the most ridiculous advice and tell you why the advice sucks so bad and how it’s making things a lot harder then they have to be. Dating Myths Exposed The surprising thing about these …

The Idea of Genuine Love Versus Attachment

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Genuine Love-Good…Attachment -Bad The Buddhist Monk Tenzin Palmo Jetsunma says it best… “Attachment says…I love you therefore, I want you to make me happy.” “Genuine love says…I love you therefore I want you to be happy.” Knowing the difference between Genuine Love and Attachment will guarantee you fulfilling relationships for the rest of your life. The problem is…most of us think attachment is actually love…you know, those feelings of not knowing what you would do if your SO left. Sadly, the strong emotions that come from attachment get in the way of being able to express or even feel genuine …

The Reality of Fantasy Relationships

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The reality is, fantasy relationships rarely work out as planned…but why? This week, Lexi and I form the show around a very interesting email from a listener that poses many questions, such as: – Can a man that is suspected of cheating actually have a monogamous relationship? – Can a polyamorous relationship work? – What type of relationship fantasy can actually become a reality? – Is there such a thing as “the one”? – Is there a way to have an “open” relationship without blowing it up? – When is the right time, if any, to start talking about an …

How to Give the Perfect Gift

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The perfect gift has way more to do with how much you know about the person you are giving the gift to rather than how big, expensive or meaningful it is to you. This week, my Voice of Millennial, Mariah and I chat about How to Give the Perfect Gift. We talk about: – Where the best gift ideas come from – The one thing the perfect gift “must” be – How important timing is to giving the perfect gift – How emotional you want to go with a gift – How to best present the gift – and a …

How to Take Your Life to the Next Level

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When you start to question where you are in your life or where your life is taking you, it’s time to sit down and figure out How to Take Your Life to the Next Level. This week, Lexi and I dig deep into questions such as: When is it time to get serious about life? What are the signs you are ready for a serious relationship? When do you know you are ready to be more open to a serious relationship? Should you prioritize your relationship? How important should your relationship be? Are you not in a serious relationship because …